Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Let's be honest

Ladies, ladies, ladies.....when will you ever learn your lesson? If a man blatantly tells you that he is a player or drops hints that even a blind man can see, why do you continue to give him the benefit of the doubt? The next thing you know, you find yourself getting angry with him? LMAO.....silly heffa!! He told you over and over again that he is other girls he is talking to. Why would you set yourself up to get hurt and expect a sympathy party to be thrown for you?

For those who have been duped by a man who was a phony, this note is not for you. After all, he was so sweet and sincere. The next thing you know....BOOM!!! He hits you with his true colors. I'm sure from that point you either ran for dear life or sobbed like a baby. After that you pull yourself together then move on.

Yes the man is wrong for being a jackass, but hey at least he is honest about his shit!!!!

Gentlemen, you are not off the hook!!! Quit trying to play Captain Save-a-hoe!!! If you notice that a woman is clearly using you, take precaution and dump her ass!!!! Don't go on this "All women ain't shit" rampage. You are doing yourself no good.

Everyone please look into yourselves and see what you can do to change for the better. We all have problems that need to be solved. Once you find someone who will love you for you and the feeling is mutual, go with the flow. Don't allow for your past experiences to have any impact on your present.

All of what I have said here I will take head to myself. Just speaking from experience......

1 comment:

LaLuneBrune said...

Very good post. I agree with every comment you made. There are always 'signs' to look for, when dating a new partner. People should always set expectations for their partners anyway before entering a relationship. Having standards automatically eliminates a LOT of headaches/arguments LOL.